Hope and Fear in Advent

We are now in the midst of Advent. It is also the anniversary of the day my cousin killed himself last year. I know this will be a tough day for his mom, but I'm not really sure how to reach out to her. So many people are sad this time of year. The losses of the past years come back to haunt them.
I'm serving at my church today. I really love being a part of the service. All distractions fall away and the essence of the Eucharist is all I see.
Last night I read some of the scripture which we will use today in our service. It is so beautiful and full of hope. It is a balm for the sad, weary, and disillusioned: "The Lord has taken away the judgements against you, he has turned away your enemies...the Lord is in your midst; you shall fear disaster no more..He will rejoice over you with gladness, he will renew you in His love."